A visa extension on humanitarian grounds

Several months ago, we read that it was possible to get a visa extension of 180 days (due to the Covid 19 crisis) by filling out some paperwork and taking the forms to immigration. Andy found the required forms on-line, filled them out and collected our passports to take to immigration in Zihuatanejo.

We tried to renew our visas in Zihuatanejo, but we were unsuccessful. The clerk flatly refused to change them and told us to come back in a month. We could not figure out why, until much later, when it donned on Andy that our visa wouldn’t run out until late June.

Today Andy and I moseyed down to our local immigration office in Morelia, Mexico. Our 180 day tourist visas expired yesterday. We’ve never overstayed our visas before. Never. Usually we fly some place else before our visas expire, although a few times we’ve left on day 180. If people do overstay their welcome, a small fine needs to be paid. We have always preferred to go the legal route and abide by Mexican rules.

This morning when we got to the immigration office in Morelia they checked our temperatures, gave us some gel and told us to go inside. The office was mostly empty with only one couple ahead of us. Score! We brought our friend Lisa with us since she’s fluent in Spanish and we thought we might need some translation help.

After we handed the clerk our paperwork, he told us that we hadn’t filled it out correctly, and we had to bring it back because we didn’t include our middle names on the forms. And, more importantly, we needed to submit a letter in Spanish indicating we were requesting a visa extension for humanitarian reasons. Unfortunately, the man at the counter, wasn’t willing to modify our forms on his computer. Luckily, Lisa lives very close to the immigration office and she has a computer AND a printer so we went to her house to redo our forms.

The humanitarian letter was easy to write since immigration was kind enough to let us take a picture of a prototype we could use. We copied it word for word in Spanish, changing our names and maybe adding one or two additional sentences. Lisa looked over all of our paperwork, deemed it acceptable and about 1.5 hours later we returned to the immigration office. There was no wait this time. The nice clerk made us sign our names 6 or 7 times on a bunch of forms, then told us to come back on Thursday. We’re pretty sure we’re going to be allowed to stay in Mexico for another 180 days which is very, very exciting! We’re both not very keen on flying right now.

The Mexican government created this cool superhero to help people learn about social distancing. More people need to practice this art!

We’re thrilled to be back in Morelia. Here’s why:

1. The weather is picture perfect. It’s 75 and sunny most days with brief afternoon thunderstorms. We no longer are dealing with the oppressive Zihuatanejo summer heat. The heat was just too much for us to handle, even though I really do like hot weather.
2. Most things are open in Morelia including cafes, and restaurants so our general quality of life is much, much better. We stayed home day-after-day for almost 3 months. The heat and boredom was really started to take its toll on us.
3. We can get everything delivered here, usually within 45 minutes. It’s simply unbelievable. This isn’t true in Zihuatanejo, although they just started grocery delivery. Our friend Mike, told us about a service called Rappi. Rappi delivers everything–food from restaurants, groceries from grocery stores, games, alcohol, snacks, everything. The only bad thing about it is that Rappi grocery delivery limits you to just 15 items at a time. If we have a large grocery list, we can’t use it, but we can use the regular grocery store app. After trying out Rappi, we decided to join Rappi prime. It’s $6 a month and we get free delivery on almost everything for this low, low price.
4. Safety- I estimate that 65 percent of people in Morelia are wearing masks. In Zihuatanejo my estimate was only 35 percent so it feels like people are taking Covid 19 a bit more seriously here.

Cool building near our house

I’ll write more about our lives in Morelia in the next few weeks. When and if Covid ever ends, we’d love to have you come visit us. Our rental house is perfectly set-up for company.

Stacey

The Tale of the Talking Bird

I really love birds. In fact, I’m a former bird owner, having had several parakeets as pets. And whenever I go into pet stores, I immediately head toward the bird section for a visit.

In Mexico, a lot of people have parrots as pets, especially in Zihuatanejo. We often hear parrots jabbering from people’s yards and houses when we walk around town. On the street we live on, Bruno lives a few doors down and we sometimes hear him talking when we walk by. Though we can see only a small part of his cage through the fence, we always try to say hello. Around the corner, there’s another parrot. He’s got a lot to say, but like Bruno, we’ve never seen him. We can only hear him.

And then there’s Loreto!

Loreto is an Amazon parrot who lives on the rooftop patio of the house next door to ours. Though we can’t see him at all, as the roofs are separated by a concrete wall, his voice carries through an opening and comes right down the stairwell to our front door and windows — meaning he has entertained us since we moved in on February 1. His silly chatter and loud squawking will put a smile on anyone’s face. He says “hola” and “Loreto” and “agua” and “pretty bird,” and a whole lot of other things we can’t quite make out. He’s especially talkative in the morning and in the early evening. Sometimes when we are having coffee on our front balcony, he just won’t shut up.

Every time we would hear Loreto talk or squawk, Andy or I would get up off our couch, stand at the base of the stairwell and shout or whistle Loreto a greeting. My go-to has been “Hola, Loreto!” But often we’d whistle to him, or sometimes try to imitate his cackling laugh. In short order, Loreto began warming up to our voices and whistles, and he would respond, usually quite excitedly. He would meet an “hola” with an “hola” back. Or when Andy whistled to him, his reply would mimic the pattern. Often he’d go into a speaking, squawking and whistling frenzy.

These experiences of communicating with Loreto left us feeling super happy, especially during shelter-in-place, and we would get very excited whenever he was in one of his talkative time periods.

Finally, after several weeks of talking to Loreto but not seeing him, we both knew the time had come for some personal interaction. The house next door is owned by the sister of our landlord (which is how we knew the bird’s name in the first place), so he helped us let her know that that we wanted to meet him. She happily invited us in, and took us up three flights of stairs to her rooftop patio. There he was! “Hola, Loreto!!”

To say Loreto is beautiful would be an understatement. As soon as I saw him up close, I was in love! After visiting there for a few minutes, his owner asked us if we wanted to take his cage next door and hang out with him. Hell yes!

She gave us his big cage, and Loreto rode over to our place on top of it (we were assured he wouldn’t fly away). We hung out with him on one of our two back balconies, hoping he would soon start talking to us. Well … he didn’t say a word. We were bummed. We tried everything, all the familiar phrases and whistles, but he was nervous and unfamiliar with his new surroundings. Then I got a bit closer and started chattering to him. He still didn’t say much, but he did make some babbling noises, but it wasn’t even close to the bubbling verbosity we had been hearing for weeks. He seemed more intrigued with the railing of our balcony, hopping onto it and checking out the scene (we live on the second floor, overlooking a small pool and our landlord’s backyard patio). He was having a grand old time — until he lost his footing and fell onto the patio below, frantically flapping his clipped wings on the way down. Terrified he was hurt, we dashed from our balcony down to the patio. Fortunately he was OK, and I picked him up with a mop handle (he happily climbed aboard) and brought him back upstairs. We hung out for a few more hours. He hopped around, fell one more time (!), played with the wire on his cage, and he seemed quite content, even giving us a few short bursts of whistles and sounds.

Visit two

A week went by, and we really missed Loreto. We knocked on our neighbor’s door and she immediately invited us to come up and get him. Again he was atop his cage as we carried him over, but this time we brought him to our rooftop patio, which is much larger and breezier. We scooted a chair next to his cage, and discovered he really loved it, hopping around on it and biting the plastic strands (biting is an important part of this species behavior). He was having so much fun on the chair, and he clearly was getting more comfortable with us, that he finally started answering our barrage of chatter and whistles. He came much closer to us this visit. He wasn’t as scared. He especially liked nibbling on my hair and glasses.

We fed him some corn nibblets, which he ate directly from our fingers. He nibbled on Andy’s shirt. That evening, after we took him back home, we heard him chattering so we went into our hallway and talked to him. When he heard our voices, you could tell how incredibly excited he was. He started jabbering back to us, repeating what he were saying to him. It was super cool!  <<Click here>> to watch a video of him whistling and speaking.

Visit three

Yesterday was our best visit with Loreto yet. He didn’t talk much at first, but we could tell he was happy to hang out with us because he was exploring the space around him quickly and without much hesitancy. He played with my hair right away and started chirping and saying his name. Then he came really, really close to my face and he started “eating” my glasses! It was so cute! We had bought him some walnuts, and he seemed to like them. He was really, really talkative during the visit and we were sad to have to take him back (albeit after five hour!).  

If we didn’t travel so much (during non-pandemic times, of course), I think we would enjoy having a pet bird. But having Loreto hang out with us – and talking to him throughout the day from our apartment and the stairwell – is a joyful diversion from our quarantiney lives.

 

Sharing a very, very dirty secret!

Sharing a Secret

Dear readers of beleiveitohrnot,

Let me share a very dirty little secret with you. Sharing this secret may have some negative consequences in my life, but I’m sharing it with you at great peril to myself because I think this dirty little secret will bring major benefits to your life–and hopefully it will rock your world like its rocked mine.

I’m a law breaker. I’m a major scoffflaw! I have way, way more than one library card which technically isn’t so kosher. I’m ashamed and even a little bit embarrassed to tell you how many library cards I actually have. It’s more than 7 and less than 22. Shall I say perhaps the number is in the double digits?  True confession… I have a database to keep track of all my cards. The database is pretty well organized to. I cherish them all.

Libraries- My first obsession

I’ve loved libraries for a very long time. My love of libraries started when I was a young girl. I used to ride my bike to the Southfield Public Library in Southfield, Michigan and check out books.  I really loved the young adult librarian. As a child, my nose was frequently buried in a book.

But I don’t just love the services libraries offer. I love possessing library cards and visiting libraries.  I adore visiting libraries all over the world. So far, I have two favorite libraries, one in Toyama, Japan, and other one in Salt Lake City, Utah. Honorable mention?  The Rockridge Public Library in Oakland, CA.

The library in Toyama, Japan is killer cool. It shares a space with the Toyoma Art Glass Museum.  Andy and I saw an excellent Dale Chilhuly exhibit there and then we walked around the library. It also had a nice cafe space where we had some hot beverages. The woodwork was stunning.

We spent a very happy afternoon at the library in Toyama, Japan.

The Salt Lake City Library comes in at number two. It really is a cool space to behold. It functions as a shared retail and library space. The bottom space houses several cool retail shops (and a cafe) and the top floors contain the library. This mixed use space is incredible. In our former life, sometimes on weekends, Andy and I would pick out a few libraries to visit located a few hours away from our house, and roadtrip to check them out. Those were good times!

I think mixed us space libraries are smart. This is the Salt Lake City library.

Enjoying the selection process

Filling out a library card application is very easy. It takes under five minutes. In California, most libraries (but not all) will let you get a card even if you don’t live in that city. You can just walk in, show your driver’s license, or another form of ID and they will happily give you a card. Many libraries allow you to apply for a card online, and then you can bring in your documentation at a later date and pick your card up.  Now, in the age of Covid, many libraries are closed and many libraries will give you a temporary card you can use online to checkout books and movies electronically.

If you are really, really lucky, you may be presented with the opportunity to pick your own library card with a design of your choosing. Getting to choose the design you like is so, so fun!  Sometimes they have contests where library users can submit design ideas. The kids submissions always look great on the cards. Not all libraries offer you the opportunity to select your own card, but many do!

Here are two of my favorite library cards. I like San Jose’s California’s card because I think it really represents the culture of silicon valley.  Computer chips are neato!  I also like the Livermore, California card (shown right) because it has a grapevine on it and the library is located in a vineyard. How cool is that?

         

 

Recently, I found some amazing new features offered by my home library in Oakland, CA  and I’m bursting at the seams to tell you about them.  Two services in particular have made me gush with intense pride about my home library.

1. Kanopy!  Kanopy  an amazing movie service offered by my library.  Using Kanaopy, we’re allowed to stream up to 5 movies a month. With all of our binge watching, five movies a month, just won’t cut it. More library cards=more opportunities to watch killer movies!  We love old movies and Kanopy has tons and tons of great films. While it’s not old, we just watched the animated film, Loving Vincent (about the death of Vincent Van Gough). Fantastic film!
2. Let me read more! The Oakland public library offers an amazing service where you fill out a short on-line form indicating what kinds of books you like to read and what books you don’t like and then the librarian sends you back a comprehensive, personalized reading list. A week after I submitted my form, the librarian sent me back 13 book recommendations-all geared towards what I had told her I like.  I’m super psyched to read theses great novels about family relationships that span several generations and are about people from different cultures. Private message me if you want me to share the list with you.  It’s pretty comprehensive.

And then there’s Overdrive and Libby!

Overdrive and its younger, cooler cousin, Libby, are web-based apps that allows people to download library books directly to a reading device of ones choice.  I like reading on a Kindle Paperwhite, but other people read on their Iphones, Ipads, or Kindle Fires. Once you download the app, you can sit in your living room and download free books. There’s nothing better than getting a brand new book (or two, or three)  to upload to your e-reader while sitting on your couch enjoying your favorite beverage.

Reading date?

On of my favorite things to do is to set-up virtual reading dates.  You pick a friend or relative to read with, then you both read at the same time virtually. You begin by sending your partner a photo indicating you are in reading mode and your partner does the same. You don’t have to be reading the same thing, (but you can). I usually have two or three reading partners and I try to read with them for 30 minutes a week.  If you want to make a reading date with me, just let me know.  I’ve always got time for some readin!

 

A degree from Johns Hopkins

Dear readers of BelieveItOhrNot,

At the ripe old age of 54, I started (sort of) studying at Johns Hopkins University … and I couldn’t be prouder! Yesterday I received a certificate in contact tracing!!

Did you ever want to study something “just because?” Did you every want to learn a new skill not knowing what you would do with it but just because it sounded “cool.” That’s me and my highly unusual interest in contact tracing.

For the past several weeks, we’ve all heard the term contact tracing. Contact tracers get in touch with people who recently have been diagnosed with Covid-19 and find out where they’ve been and who they’ve been in contact with. Reportedly, more than 100,000 contact tracers will soon be needed, as more and more states start “opening up.” Part detective, part social worker, part therapist, contact tracers are employed by local county and state departments of health, and they must display special skills.

A few days ago, I noticed that Johns Hopkins was offering a free, online certification course to train contact tracers … so I enrolled and began my life as a reentry student. And such a prestigious school, to boot!

The fairly simple online course was a ton of fun. It was conducted by Cosera, an online platform which I had never used before. The course took me about 6 hours and covered a lot of cool things.

• It described the natural history of SARS-CoV-2 , including the infectious period, the presentation of Covid-19, and evidence for how it is transmitted.

• It defined an infectious contact, and gave a timeline for public health intervention through contact tracing.

• It demonstrated the utility of case investigation and contact tracing, and identified common barriers (and the strategies to overcome them).

• It presented some ethical considerations around contact tracing, isolation and quarantine.

I went through the various modules in the course, and all of them kept my attention. After each, I had to take a short quiz. Some were harder than others,  but generally the material was easy.  If I failed a module, I was allowed to review the material (if I wanted to) and take the test again (and again). The only module I didn’t do well on was math, which contained info on how to calculate infectious periods and periods needed for quarantining.  It’s a bit complicated.

I especially liked the modules teaching tracers how to build rapport with the people they call. There were sections on how to construct open-ended questions so people could talk about their symptoms, and when to use closed-ended questions. I also liked the examples of how to use reflective listening skills, and how to demonstrate  empathy. They also had several role-play scenarios in which contact tracers demonstrated both good and bad phone skills. (Cutting people off? Bad! Paraphrasing what the client just said? Good!)

The final module included a 40-question, multiple-choice exam which I felt pretty ready for. I needed 85 percent to pass. The system would have allowed me to take the final exam two times  in a row, but after two failures, one would have to wait 72 hours to retake it.

Now that I am fully certified, I am filling out a few applications for part-time remote work. However, I doubt I’ll get hired because most of the openings are for full-time workers.  That’s not in my wheelhouse. Plus the salaries seem dismal, with some of the jobs paying $10.50 an hour. It’s shocking that such an important job pays so poorly. Completely despicable!

Still, I have no regrets, and I have a cool, new skill. I got to take some cool exams. I killed six hours and it made for a good blog post.

 

 

 

 

Covid-19 in Mexico: an update

Dear Reader of BelieveItOhrNot,

Hello from the very beautiful city of Zihuatanejo, Mexico, on the Pacific coast well south of Puerto Vallarta and about four hours north of Acapulco. Population of Zihuatanejo is 120,000, diagnosed cases of coronavirus: 3. In no way do I believe this very low number, but that’s for another blog post.

“Been there, done that”

I’m living through the worst case of deja vu I have ever experienced. It’s not just that we wake up every day to a life that looks very much like yesterday’s life.  It’s much more than that.

For weeks, we’ve been following the news in the United States, watching the death toll rise and rise. For weeks I’ve been thinking (and telling the few Mexicans I talk to these days) that the same thing might happen here (Mexico is about three weeks behind the U.S. in terms of the outbreak, when it had its 1,000th positive case, 10,000th, etc.). But I have quickly learned that while most Mexicans have a good sense of what has happened and is happening worldwide, they (generally) do not think Covid will have a mass impact on Mexican life in generally and on their own lives in particular.

Some Mexicans I spoke with initially told me that they thought the heat and humidity would keep the virus low here, while others told me that even if it did come to Mexico, there was no way life would shut down like it had in the United States, Italy and Spain. Close the beaches countrywide during the Easter vacation week? Unthinkable! Stop school? Ridiculous! Close restaurants and cafes in a city that caters to not only U.S. and Canadian tourists, but thousands of Mexicans every weekend, and especially Easter weekend? Was I high?

The general consensus seemed to be that Covid-19 was an “other world problem” and that Mexico would not shut down because 1) the people here would never agree to stay at home; it’s just not part of the fabric of life. And 2) the informal economy consisting of beach vendors, street merchants and other street peddlers would not stop working out of sheer economic necessity. Again and again, I was reminded that half of the Mexican population lives in poverty, so shutting down their means of sustenance was simply out of the question.

So I stopped talking about what was happening in the U.S., though I continued to watch as American life unraveled. I was shocked and saddened at the sheer volume of things closing down, and watching a worldwide meltdown was sad and scary.

But please don’t think this is a “I told you so” piece of journalism, because it’s not. It’s just about what happens when you get punched in the gut … and then you get punched in the gut again three weeks later.

Fast forward to what’s been happening here. First, the government of Mexico decided to shut down schools and universities for two weeks, lengthening its spring break. Then, day by day,  more and more things started shutting down. I knew things were really serious when all the beaches throughout the entire country closed. I knew the situation was bad when Mexico shut down all of its beaches during Easter, a time when Mexican families flock to them. Suddenly tourism in Zihuatanejo was at a complete and utter standstill. Then came the final nail in the coffin. We started hearing that tourist hotels here and in nearby Ixtapa (10 minutes away) were closing until the pandemic had passed. No more guests drinking from plastic party cups at all-inclusive resorts, no more tourists grabbing beers on the beach, no more shoppers buying trinket after trinket to take home as souvenirs. Even the Zihuatanejo airport stopped international flights eventually, although there are a scant few flights Mexico City (and one to Tijuana, I think) a few times a week.

The current situation

In the last few days, the death toll in Mexico has risen like crazy. It’s horrifying. We have about 16,752 positive cases and 1,569 deaths so far, and the situation is particularly bad in Mexico City and in Guadalajara. That might not seem like a lot compared to the United States (or Italy or Spain or elsewhere), but we are still early into the pandemic here. May 8 through 10 are anticipated to be the worst days. Luckily, the state where we are currently residing, Guerrero, hasn’t had that many cases (239 current positive, 39 deaths), and the numbers are extremely low in our “metro” area of Zihua and Ixtapa.

Mexico has a well-thought-out and comprehensive strategy approach to this contagion (and others previously, such as as H1N1 in 2009), and a very good approach to public health communications. This communications strategy has allowed them to quickly inform large numbers of people about Covid-19. There are continual public service announcements (PSAs) on the radio reminding people to stay in their houses, and there are similar TV spots encouraging people to stay at home, and there are even municipal-government cars that drive around beaming important messages (via a microphone and/or loudspeakers) to various communities and neighborhoods (many of them poor). It’s a great way to reach the people quickly.  There are also huge billboards around town, homemade signs and grassroots art encouraging people to not leave their houses. In my last blog post, I introduced you to Susana Distancia. She’s my Covid-19 superhero. She wants you to keep your safe distance (su sana disancia in Spanish means “your safe distance!”

 

What’s the situation like in Zihuatanejo?

I am happy to report that a lot of people in Zihuatanejo are staying home, and many have been doing so for quite a awhile. (You know how they say thousands of lives in New York could have been saved if stay-at-home started sooner; well, here in Mexico, it pretty much did start sooner). These days, some sections of the city are absolutely empty. The usually foreign-tourist-dominated area of La Ropa beach (where my mom lives from Oct.-March) doesn’t have a soul in sight, neither on its world-class long beach nor on the streets where some stores and restaurants, and tons of condos and casitas and hotels, are located. Where we live, closer to downtown, most of the streets are not very crowded, but they are not as empty as the La Ropa area. The amount of foot traffic is half of what it normally is, or perhaps two-thirds on one particular street that is loaded with fruit/veggie stores, pharmacies and loads of small stores catering to everyday Mexicans’ everyday needs.

Sadly, those who are out and about (and by that, I mean Mexicans, because only about 150-200 foreigners have remained in the area, according to one media report) generally are not practicing social distancing and are doing their shopping while very close together. About half are wearing masks. This is the case in the fruit and vegetable district a couple of blocks away from our house. Andy and I shop for our fresh fruits and vegetables only in the “off hours” (generally early evening) because we don’t want to be near people who are not practicing physical distancing. When we do go out now, I always wear a mask, too. I just bought these two fashionable beauties.

About our living situation

While it’s very difficult staying home day in and day out, we are really happy we made the decision to ride out Covid-19 in Zihuatanejo rather than returning to the United States.  Rene, our landlord is taking great care of us. His family home is on the ground floor below our rental unit, and though we keep safe distances, he checks with us several times a day to make sure all is well. We feel very well taken care of.  I have mentioned before about the generosity and lovely spirit of the Mexican people, and Rene has treated us like his own family. We are very grateful to him and to his family.

In addition to side-by-side, fully equipped, one-bedroom apartments with a/c, we now also have access to the empty apartment across the hall, mainly its huge front balcony overlooking our quiet street (we have coffee out there nearly every morning nowadays). We also have access to a huge rooftop terrace and a small backyard pool. And everything is kept immaculately clean. Since Rene’s taxi work has completely dried up, he is spending nearly every second of his days meticulously cleaning, mopping, and doing improvements to the property and its two empty units.

It’s a great living situation, and while we were hoping to be back in Morelia on May 1 (following a trip to Michigan for what was supposed to be my dad’s 80th birthday celebration on April 25), we’re safe and well taken care of here. Andy still is working about 15-16 hours a week and it’s proven to be a nice distraction. I’m working a bit, as well, but having a hard time concentrating for long stretches at a time. I continue to run on a paved path three mornings a week, we take short walks on the others days, and we are very fortunate that two friendly dogs live with the family downstairs (one is a rambunctious terrier mix who loves to fetch), and we play with them at least once a day in a big, gated, garage area (think of the carport area in “Roma” times three, minus the car and doody). And we watch a lot of classic, old, foreign movies by some of history’s great directors. We found a great free, streaming source via our local library (Kanopy). We’re also power watching “Malcolm in the Middle” (which we both enjoy) via the free on-demand option on our Mexican cable service. And we managed to save “Tiger King” on Netflix for weeks; we just started it last night.

Some days are harder than others and, yeah, life isn’t easy these days But many people have it a lot worse, so I try to focus on gratitude — that is, when I’m not feeling short-tempered and on edge. Our plans are to go to Morelia as soon as it’s prudent; the colonial home we had for six months last year is waiting for us. I hope we will be there by June 1, but we might be hunkering down in Zihuatanejo a little longer depending on the situations in both areas and the country in whole.

Stay safe!  Be healthy!  Be kind!

Coronavirus in Mexico-Part three

Amigas Y Amigos,

Hola!  Welcome to Coronavirus in Mexico part 3. It’s been several days since I updated you on the situation here in Mexico, so I thought I’d take this opportunity to share the latest and greatest news.  It’s not particularly good.

I’m composing this blog post from my mom’s condo. Andy and I have moved here for one week starting today. Sadly, my mom isn’t here with us. She’s on a plane back to Detroit via Chicago. She was planning to ride out the virus here in Zihuatanejo with us, but sadly immigration would not let her stay in Mexico. Like us, shes on a 180 day tourist visa and the Mexican government would not let her extend it. Luckily our visas won’t expire until June 1, so we have a few more months to stay here.

Since her original flight on April 4 got canceled, she had one more week remaining in her lease. Andy and I jumped at the opportunity to move into her digs, for a week. We’ll move back to our pad close to downtown after a 7 days respite, although we’ll move back and forth a bit to get clothes and assorted items whenever we need them. We moved to her three bedroom condo overlooking La Ropa beach for the following reasons:

First, she’s got an incredible view of the Zihuatanejo bay!  I’m sorry the photo I included in this blog does not do her view justice. We love watching the boats in the Bay, the parasailers (aka dopes on a rope) and the  other happenings. Also, at night, the hillside really twinkles and it’s muy romantico!

She’s got an amazing, amazing view of the Bay of Zihuataneho.

 

It’s also much cooler where she lives. Even though we only live 1.5 miles apart, she gets a really nice Bay breeze. It’s getting hotter and hotter here but it’s way cooler at her house.

Other reasons include the following;

1. A three bedroom condo is more spacious than our one one-bedroom apartment. We can spread out more here and since we’re together night and day, the space break is nice.
2. She’s got a really nice swimming pool at her condo which is usually empty. We can bring our small cooler up to her pool and chillout.

3. In addition to having these sweet digs, She left us tons and tons of food! And she also left me a brand new bottle of a spectacular tequila, Don Julio 1942! I highly recommend you get yourself a bottle during these trying times 🙂

In addition to staying at her condo, we now have the added luxury of having a car, until May 1 when we hopefully leave for Morelia. We asked her landlord if we could rent her car for another month and he said yes. This is a big benefit for us. Under normal circumstances, we do not want a car, but since we are trying to practice social distancing, it does not make sense to be on crowded city buses, and we’d rather not use taxis so having a short-term rental car is a smart decision.

Mexican response

To say the Mexican government has done nothing to prepare for the virus would not be a factual statement. Things are starting to change here. We’re finally seeing evidence of large-scale shutdowns in the city of Zihuatanejo. Many restaurants in downtown Zihuatanejo have closed or plan to close. The beaches are emptier and emptier. A few days ago, the President, affectionately known as AMLO, finally asked people to start practicing social distancing. But it took a long, long time for him to do anything of substance. Like the United States, State governments have taken it upon themselves to coordinate local responses. Some states moved into action early and some states reacted more slowly. There has not been a country-wide mandate on how to respond to the virus which is discouraging.

However, the Mexican government did invent this cool cartoon character to help people understand what social distancing is all about. Let me introduce you to Susana Distencia!   She kicks butt!

Unfortunately, from what I can tell, many  Mexican’s don’t really appreciate or heed her message to stay apart. It just doesn’t seem to be sinking in quite yet.  I do think that many people are heeding AMLO’s message to stay at home more, but when they are out, they are not staying very far apart.  We see people crowding onto buses, moving close together on the streets, and not respecting individual space in the markets. 

On a more positive note, the government has begun putting up signs in some places including convenience stores and banks and some banks have even started limiting how many customers they allow inside at one time, but I fear these actions have come too little, too late. All signs indicate that Mexico will get very hard hit by the virus and they do not have good medical care to support their citizens. AMLO has said publically that Mexico is well prepared. We will see.  At the time of this blog post, Mexico has only 711 cases, (none in Zihuatanejo), but they have conducted almost no testing and I don’t trust these numbers.  Mexico City will be very, very hard hit. In the next week, I suspect more people will start staying home more and more.  In a prior post, I mentioned I was worried about what will happen when Easter comes since tons of Mexican’s go to the beaches for Easter, and Zihuatanejo gets packed, but we’ve been hearing rumors that they might close them. We’re both hoping this happens. If you are interested, hotel occupancy is Zihuatenjo was eight percent this last week, and Ixtapa occupancy was just 16 percent. Horrible for the economy, but promising to help reduce the spread of the virus.  Furthermore, usually on the weekends (like today) Zihuatanejo beaches would be packed with bus loads of people coming from surrounding areas. Today we only counted six buses. A normal Saturday might garner 50. 

A look inside our lives

We continue to take walks in the early evenings and  I try to run 3 times a week. We haven’t eaten out in a restaurant in about 2 weeks. And I don’t really like takeout so I have been cooking a lot.  We sometimes have coffee out, but only if the cafe is fairly empty. Now that we have a car,  we hope to go to some beaches about 30-40 minutes away.  During the week, these beaches are empty. We’re usually the only people so if they remain open, we feel safe going. We’ll also go back and forth between our apartment and my mom’s to get clothes and other items and to play with the dogs of the family we rent our apartment from. We’ll study Spanish. We’ll go to my mom’s pool. We’ll sit in her hammock and read.  We’ll watch CNN and try to keep up with what’s happening.

Oh, we also created this nifty day-to-day chart to keep us from getting too depressed. We’ve been doing a good job of following it so far.

Finally, we just heard that the U.S. Ambassador to Mexico is strongly encouraging all ex-pats to go back to America if they can. Right now this is only a suggestion, not something that is mandated. Our plan remains the same. We will continue to stay here for the foreseeable future. It’s a bit surreal because both places Andy and I would normally return to (California and Michigan) are absolutely getting clobbered with the Coronavirus, so for now, Mexico continues to feel like the best option for us.

We appreciate your texts, phone calls and electronic communications. We will keep you updated about the situation here, but for now we’re good.

Remember to be kind to yourself and to one another!

Stacey

Coronavirus en Mexico Part 2

Dear readers of BelieveitOhrnot,

Hello from Zihuataenjo, Mexico where the temperature is a balmy 88 degrees. I want to give a quick update on how Mexico is preparing for the Coronavirus and what Andy and I are doing to keep safe.

Thanks to CNN and MSNBC we’re fully informed of what’s happening in the United States and around the world.  We watch the news several times a day and we’re online throughout the day.  In my last blog,  I wrote about what Andy and I are doing to prepare. We’ve been stocking up on groceries, wipes and plenty of hand sanitizer.  For the last several days, we’ve been walking around Zihuatanejo looking for hand gel. We didn’t really need any but it seemed like a fun activity.  And because Zihuatanejo is so small, we can cover a lot of ground quickly.  Over the past few days, most places have been sold out, but we found two small bottles.   Then today, we went to a few different pharmacies and they had a lot of handmade gel.  It looked like this.  They had larger ones and smaller ones, but no bottled gel.

Then later today on our walk, we passed a cleaning supply store with a very long line.

People were coming out of the store with huge orange tubs which we later found out was antibacterial gel.  We bought one to share with our landlord, his friends, and with other people in Zihuatanejo who might need it. Trust me, we’re not hoarding it, I promise!

I’m not confident Mexico is preparing for the virus or taking it seriously–although some people may disagree with me.  The President doesn’t believe in practicing social distance and he’s been going from town to town kissing and hugging his supporters.  The Mexican government did call off school for the last month and the country currently has has 93 cases, and they have mentioned practicing social distancing, but people in Zihuatanejo do not seem to be following it.  Some places are doing more than other places just like in the United States. I also just read they have 153 million dollars dedicated to tackling the virus, but I’m pretty sure that’s not enough money.  I am hoping Mexico will follow the path of the USA and start implementing much stricter measure before it’s too late.

When I ask my friends and neighbors what they think of the virus, I get the following replies. 

1. It’s not going to hit Mexico that hard because it’s so hot here.
2. Everyone is panicking for no real reason, especially America.
3. It’s just important to wash your hands but that’s about all.
4.  Mexican can’t close restaurants and shops because the country is too poor and too many people will suffer.

Frankly, I’m really worried about Easter approaching because during Easter, a huge number of  Mexicans flock to the beaches (think American spring break in Miami). People live in their cars, camp on the streets and Zihuatanejo gets insanely crowded. It’s possible the beaches may close (they are starting to talk about closing them) but it’s too early to tell.

In the meantime, our plan is to stay in Mexico for as long as it makes sense. We don’t know how long that is yet, but our day to day life is fine. We practice social isolation and we go to the beach or out for coffee.  We’re trying to avoid all crowds. We have dramatically cut back eating out. Day by day, we are staying home more and more. If the President calls American’s back to the United States we’ll return–but we’d rather not.   Our plan is to move to Morelia on May 1 and spend the summer there.

Here’s the latest post from the Mexico City News.  They have been updating their website several times a day.

If coronavirus forecasts are accurate, Mexico will be a few beds short

Stay safe and be kind!

 

Prepping for the Corona/Zombie Apocalypse

For the past three days I’ve been glued to the TV and I’ve spent countless hours on-line reading about Coronavirus. It’s hard for me to unplug.  I’m a bit of a news hound and this story really fascinates me. Between what I’ve been seeing on TV, and what I’ve been reading online and on Facebook, I realize America has gone “end of the world” crazy.  I’m seeing picture upon picture of empty shelves from places like Trader Joes and Costco.

Things are way different here in Mexico so I wanted to share an on-the-ground report.

I guess if I had to explain my mentality about preparing for a natural disaster or for something big like this pandemic, I would say meet my friend Bob. He’s like me.

Bob and I both have a lot in common.  We both try not to buy too many items in bulk and we both wash our hands a lot. We like the folks at the CDC and at the World Health Organization. We try to read a lot of different sources on-line, not just one.

Yeah, so I’m not an excessive prepper. In my everyday life, I rarely have more than one of anything in stock with the exception of maybe a spare cartoon of almond milk, or a few spare tofu’s. Although our house is usually well-stocked with food and it would last a good two weeks if need be.  I usually have rice and beans around and I could whip up a huge pot of soup lasting about a week in a pinch. Do I have enough grub to last for one month? Probably not, but maybe.

The only thing I ever prepped excessively for was for the risk of an earthquake in San Francisco. We couldn’t believe the jackpot of items we found when we unpacked our gigantic rubber garbage can/earthquake emergency bin right before we sold our house!  We found an unopened, brand new solar powered radio,  tons of batteries, bleach, old clothes, an industrial sized jar of peanut butter, and 15-20 really old Cliff bars. In fact, they were so old, we had  to throw them away. I’m thinking 10-15 years old.  We also found several pairs of work gloves, flashlights galore, a camping cook stove, a tent and a tarp and a ton of assorted first aid items.  Did I mentioned the old canned goods and bottled water?   I really was shocked I had done such a good job getting us earthquake ready.  We also found our earthquake emergency car kit, which is way, way smaller, but very well stocked. If we drive without it, I feel very unsettled.

About three days ago, when I started seeing my friends Facebook feeds showcasing empty shelves everywhere, I said to Andy “hey, we should go out and buy some wipes and hand gel before they sell out in Mexico. Mr Tuffy agreed.  We went to the local pharmacy and bought one huge jar of antibiotic hand gel, and 6 travel packs of wipes. I’m sure the lady who rung us up thought we were dumb, scared Americans.

And then I got a bit smarter….and smarter…

My friend Kara who lives in Portland and I were rapping about Corona.  She told me she had recently checked her winter cold supply. She found four stale cough drops, and not much more. She told me that if she and her husband need to self-quarantine, she wants to have some cold and flu medicine available, so she went on-line and researched what she should buy. Smart!  Andy and I did our own inventory last night and today we followed her lead and bought some electrolyte water, a small assortment of cold and flu medication, some cough drops and some advil. Oh, and a bunch of extra packets of kleenex and some vicks vapor rub. Nothing too crazy, just enough to feel like we can take care of ourselves and each other should the stores run out.  We also bought some dried beans, dried fruit, and some assorted nuts and a few packs of tuna. Toilet paper, nope?   Facemasks, nope.  To us, this seemed way less important.

Is Mexico ready for Corona?

If we’re talking about beer, hell yes!  If we’re talking about the virus, not so much. The stores seem very, very well stocked and haven’t run out of anything. I went to Sam’s Club in Zihuatanenjo two days ago and the isles were packed with goods but few people were shopping. They had tons and tons of toilet paper, and loads of wipes.  However, today we went to the main grocery store in Zihuatanejo and we couldn’t find any travel wipes. But we did see someone wiping down each and every grocery cart with disinfectant. Super cool!  We just read that Corona is expected to arrive in Mexico between March 20 and March 30.  Right now there are only 12 cases, but the arrival of Corona in Mexico in inevitable.  Mexico has started publishing some articles about the virus in the newspaper, but they are days and days behind how the U.S is handling the virus.

Additionally, because I thought Mexico was so  far behind,  I also asked my good friend and business partner, Lisa to pick up a few extra items where she lives in Morelia. I figured we could use them in a pinch in May when we arrive, and she happily agreed. She told me that today people are doing a tiny bit more prep and I think some community events are starting to get canceled, but it’s on a very small scale.

Here’s to being prepared in a sort of minimal way kind of way.

I will end this blog post by reminding people to wash your hands, stay home if you are sick, and practice social isolation so you don’t get older people and other vulnerable populations sick. We all have to take this seriously to minimize its risk. And don’t forget to BE KIND.

Our plans are to stay in Mexico and then return to the United States in mid April because my dad is having  big birthday!  Hopefully Corona won’t disrupt it.

You can read more about the virus in Mexico below.

https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2020/03/coronavirus-mexico-border-crossing-limits-200313151403402.html

https://mexico.as.com/mexico/2020/03/13/tikitakas/1584116302_445609.html (in Spanish)

https://www.elfinanciero.com.mx/salud/por-que-en-mexico-hay-pocos-casos-confirmados-de-coronavirus  (in Spanish)

 

 

 

 

No Hablo Espanol…

I’m frustrated.  I’m worn out. I’m dismayed.

I don’t know if I’ve experienced frustration like I feel when I study Spanish.  A lot of people wrongly assume that after almost 4 years of living in Mexico I should be speaking fluently. I’m not even close.

I study Spanish a lot.  I usually study with a private teacher whenever possible. In Morelia, and now in Zihuatanejo, I take classes for an hour a day, five days a week. In addition to taking classes, I always try to do daily Spanish homework, at least for 10 or 15 minutes, five days a week.  My practice includes writing sentences and writing simple stories about my day. Even with all this practice, I’m not progressing as I should be.

Now don’t get me wrong. When I moved to Mexico I spoke zero Spanish. I only knew a few words. Now I can understand and reply to simple questions about where I’m from, what foods I like to eat, what cities I’ve lived in. And I can recognize many, many new words. But I still can’t understand a story in the newspaper, or follow a newscaster.  Usually I can’t even follow a conversation two people are having on the street!

You could say that I am just being hard on myself and that I should cut myself a break. After all, don’t we all need to be kinder to ourselves?  Yes, we do. And I try. But it’s hard when my teacher has told me the same thing over and over, and I still don’t get it.Maybe it’s the affects of chemotherapy, or maybe it’s my aging brain, or maybe I’m just bad at languages. I’m really not sure why this old brain just doesn’t get it.

For the past five or six months, I have been working on trying to speak in the past. I went to the store. I ate some fish last night. I went to the market and bought I some juice. But as simple as this sounds,  I just seem to stay trapped in the world of not understanding how to properly conjugate the necessary verbs.  I can barely speak in the present!  The past just seems daunting.  But I remain hopeful that one day I will master this beautiful language.  I remain hopeful that I will one day be able to speak about my day and what I did.

Practice makes perfect and practice I shall!

Yo puedo hablo Espanol, un poco.

Merida- A City of Contrasts

Greetings from Merida Mexico.

I’ve got a lot of mixed feelings about this large and very beautiful colonial city.  We’re  just about to wrap-up our one month stay, so I thought I would recap our experience here and share a few things about life in this big city.  Merida is the the largest city in the Yucatan (800,000) state and it’s an old colonial city.  It’s got a lot of charm, yet it left me feeling underwhelmed. Here’s why:

1. Although the house we are renting is really nice, the neighborhood is not. The rental is very far from the main downtown area where you can find some of Merida’s best cafes and restaurants. We realized the house wasn’t in the best location when we found it through a listing service, but after looking at two other crappy rentals through Airbnb, we just decided to take it. Our house is surrounded by a mix of run down buildings, and renovated colonial house, but overall it’s mostly a fairly downtrodden neighborhood. It seems safe enough so that’s not a concern, but unfortunately, there are not really any places to hangout, with the exception of two cafes (but one closes at 2 PM). There’s not a hip bar or restaurant in sight. To get to a nice area we have to walk about 15-20 minutes which is certainly not terrible,  but it’s not “pop in” territory.

1. Although we do end up walking a lot, we also spend a lot of time taking  Uber  to check out different neighborhoods.  It’s OK, but not ideal.
2. The city of Merida has a lot of tourists and because it has a lot of tourists, it means prices are not as cheap as we’re used to paying (especially not as cheap as Morelia).
3. The energy isn’t the same as Morelia. Perhaps it’s because it’s not a university town
4. The center square has no cafes to sit and people watch.  Most Mexican squares are littered with cafes for perfect people watching. Although the main square in Merida is nice, it’s lacking areas to hangout and watch life go around you.
5. The heat. It’s really, really hot. Even though I believe we were here in one of the coolest months, some days it was just sticky and uncomfortable.

That being said, there are a few things that I really like about Merida!

1. They have cooler and hipper restaurants.  The restaurant scene is similar to that of Oaxacca or of Mexico City.
2. The Mayan people are warm and wonderful. People here seem friendly, helpful and their smiles are all encompassing.
3. Merida has a fantastic long street that replicates the Champs Elysees Avenue in Paris. It’s simply stunning. I like running and walking along it on Sunday when it’s closed off to traffic and the whole town seems to enjoy it.

This street reminds me of Paris.

4. Merida has Mr. Tofu! Mr. Tofu is a new market where you can buy frozen Beyond Burgers, Tofurky and other yummy plant-based products.

I clearly see why so many ex-pats find Merida so appealing.  It’s an easy and  lively city.  It’s colonial facades are beautiful, the beach is only 30 minutes away and it certainly has a good cultural scene. But for me, it wasn’t a home run.  I’d rather live in Morelia, Puebla, Oaxacca or even Queretaro.

All-inclusive mini-vacay

Recently we took a four day vacation and visited two different all-inclusive resorts. Both properties were located in Playa Del Carmen (3.5 hours away).

Hacienda Tres Rios

This property  was stunning. The beach was really nice (although you couldn’t swim in it) and both the adult pool and activity pool were first rate. We booked the lowest category room and it was super nice too!

Two things really stood out about this property. First, even though it was 85 percent full, it never felt crowded.  We never had trouble finding a beach chair or pool chairs in the shade, even at peak pool time. Also, the service was really warm and hospitable and it left a long-lasting impression of both of us.

And then there was the tours. Most tours were included at no additional charge and this is unusual for an all-inclusive resort. We did two tours and both of them were super cool. First we went snorkeling in a cenote. It was deep and the experience ended up being more of a underwater, very long swimming hike. Totally great. We also did a sensory walk through the mangrove blindfolded where we got to experience the mangrove using our sense of smell, and touch. The tours were really the highlight of this particular all-inclusive resort.  Unfortunately, the food was mostly dreadful, really not very good. They also didn’t have a nice, upscale bar area. But they did have a fun sportsbar so Andy and I played a lot of pool which was super fun. They also had a really nice cafe with free cakepops!  I also enjoyed seeing the diversity of people staying there. This included  a lot of Mexican families mixed in with some American families. On our last day we took a Segway tour of the property (not included in the fee) and Andy took quite a spill on his Segway, but man and machine both seem fine.

Ocean Mayan Royale

The Ocean Maya Royale ended up being right next store to the first all-inclusive we stayed at. Think crazy frat party with a pool full of drunk people. The room, pool and beach were an overcrowded and nightmarish scene and we had trouble finding pool chairs.

The pool space wasn’t very nice at all. It reminded me of an old Howard Johnson’s hotel. Our room wasn’t nice either. It was a really drab and dismal space badly in need of a total renovation. Our mini- fridge didn’t work, and some of the room lights didn’t work either.

But on a positive note, the common areas, (coffeeshop, main buffet area and specialty restaurants) were really, really nice.  The lobby bar kicked butt!  You could tell the resort had spent a lot of money making the common areas look hip and super inviting. And the food was unbelievable. Very top-notch! With only a one-night stay, we visited their most upscale restaurant and it was fantastic. Based on the quality of the food I saw and tasted at both the buffet and at the specialty restaurant, I think the other restaurants would be equally as good. It was cool going to two different resorts because they were both so different.  It was fun comparing and contrasting them.

Moving On

On Sunday we’re leaving Merida and flying to Zihuataenjo (via Mexico City) for eight weeks. We’re going to be staying at the same place as we stayed at last year. Once again, we have a free one-bedroom apartment right next to ours for extra guests. If you want to come visit, let us know.

Beach time, mom time, fresh fish time. Yeah, I’m ready.